Getting hurt is not dictated. It is an emotion.
When we get hurt, we get hurt and we should feel hurt. I mean hello? Why else should we cover up what we truly feel? We are humans after all (cliche but true) and we innately get hurt. No one should question why you get hurt. No one should say, "You don't have the right to get hurt because there was never you and him or you and her in the first place". That is just rubbish!
Everyone gets hurt, it's just that we have different ways of coping. Some deny it and pretend to be alright. Others admit the hurt and strive to be fine. The first one suppressed the emotion and the other one accepted it. Which one do you think is really ok between them? Which one are you?
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